Look him in the eye

People ask me how I turn down men.
I don't.
I simply look them in the eye.

How do you distinguish a boy from a man?
Look him in the eye, and see if he can hold it.

Boys are insecure, they will look away.
Men know themselves.
They know what they lack, and they have accepted it.
Look him in the eye, and see the extent of his courage.